Advertising to the Modern Man

by Cory Huff on February 23, 2010

I don’t know exactly what happened in the last few months, but I’ve been reading a lot of chatter from various male bloggers that I admire. We’re getting tired of the ridiculous advertising pushed on the American man. Perhaps it was the Superbowl ads and their pandering to neanderthal men.

How many men are there that are just sick and tired of it? We are MEN, not beer swilling, breast staring buffoons who have been whipped into submission by our nagging wives. Most of us are intelligent, capable, loving husbands and fathers (except me – I’m not a father). Why do these ads not target our demographic?

Are you one of those guys that agrees with me? In the last month I’ve had conversations with several of them. I’d love to hear your agreement in the comments.

Brett McKay from Art of Manliness told me that he’s focusing on working with small advertisers who are responsive to the interests of more enlightened men (read: most of us).

Ben Martin from The Father Life told me he has reams of data showing that men are more interested in advertisements that don’t make men look dumb.

I recently read this post from Natural Papa where he talks about the need to focus on the good things men are doing.

I know Tyler Wainright from Building Camelot agrees with me.

So here, the question:

What the heck are we going to do about it? Is there an organization that we can all join to help advertisers wake up? Do we form our own?

The only way that these companies are going to change is if we make if financially feasible for them to do so. Why don’t we all just raise a big stink? How about something like a Blog Carnival about advertising to men and what modern men are now (and what we’re not)?

What do you think guys? (this post was cross-posted at AGoodHusband.net)

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I know this post is a few months old now, but I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I'm really getting tired of having my manliness questioned by product advertisers who feel that my self-worth should be equivalent to how much beef I can cram in my gullet.

I'm sick of being pandered to like a child.

As much as I find women attractive, I still get sick of sex-based advertising being shoved down my throat on a daily basis. It's numbing.

We can do better than this.

Great point Cory! Its something I too have been thinking about for a while. And yes, it did seem like this year's superbowl ads were particularly egregious.

Ive done some research and there are very few outlets for the progressive/modern/non-alpha male (we dont even have a good word for it!) on the web.

And think about men's magazines. All we are have are Maxim, FHM, and GQ (let alone porn). One thing to keep in mind if you want to find advertisers who will market to the modern man, is where are those men? Without progressive male websites/magazines/cable channels, etc, advertisers have no way to reach us.

Rob, those modern men aren't gathered in one place. That's part of the problem. Brett at ArtofManliness.com has done a good job of gathering real men together, but as far as I can tell, he's the only one with a decent following.

That said, there are hundreds of daddy bloggers. Guys who write primarily about family, career concerns, and humor that rises above an Adam Sandler movie. How do we gather these guys together? That's the question, isn't it?

@amber - thanks for the comment!

@tyler - I didn't know about your photography business. Congratulations, man. I'm glad to see you're working for your daughters' sake.

I say we form our own. I have two daughters and I don't want them to grow up and expect anything less than a real man as a husband...they are too amazing to learn about and settle for a pandering neanderthal. (This is Tyler from BuildingCamelot)

It's good for men *and* women that men are not portrayed as pandering neanderthals. Because, for every pandering neanderthal, there is a nagging bimbo. Not good!

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